I have been a professional librarian for a quarter of a century, and have worked at the two largest universities in Toronto, and the largest law firms on Bay Street. If there is one constant - one and one only - that has occurred throughout that time as a (straight) white male working in an overwhelmingly female, leftist profession (both in academia and to some extent corporate), it is this: whenever I'm hired, I'm always, *always* taken aside by numerous co-workers and told in hushed, forbidden tones: "Thank GOD we finally hired a MAN".
I've seen first-hand what's been sold to the professional, female class in cities like Toronto. It's not pretty. The dating scene for any woman over thirty is Darwinian, dreadful and turgid. And one end result not often discussed is the absolute elimination of men in the disciplines and professions that lead to the surplus of women that's described here: journalism, law, marketing, publishing, academia, business administration and development, design and many roles in the financial industry - along with many related fields - are now almost entirely female-dominated: from 80-90 percent female enrolment in undergrad uni courses up through grad school, to hiring choices by corporations in firms with 100 percent female HR departments, there is a baked-in, anti-male infrastructure in place that will only warp these numbers even further. I've literally never had a male boss in 25 years, and my profession is no longer an outlier.
I can guarantee that every woman in those articles mentioned has a kind, decent man and potential partner in their life that is in front of their face, but that they don't see: a plumber in their building who fixes their drains, the bus driver on their route to work, the electrician and drywaller on the condo construction site they pass by every day, the property manager of the office building they get their Starbucks from, and on an on. Problem is, good enough isn't good enough. And so onto the dating app treadmill they go, where that 10 percent of guys can create electronic harems that the ancient Sheikh's can only dream of. And left behind are thousands of self-deluded women with no partner and no children who wonder why no one at their grocery store speaks English.
LOVE your comment. Wish I could give it 10 hearts/likes.
As a female of the species, a wife, mother and grandmother I can't bear the way men are treated these days. Luckily my son is married to an incredible young woman who is rather old fashioned and a stay at home mom. My two sons-in-law are great guys and I love them dearly. All of these men are family oriented and they adore their wives and kids.
Here's the problem- while I am a total MAGA conservative, all of my family members that I speak of are liberal Dems. UGH!
I keep telling myself- judge them by their actions, not by their words.
This. It's made work life intolerable for men but also women.
I had a former career as a graphic designer/art director and around 2000 when the HR departments came on strong they were filled with Millennial women younger than myself. These women were not knowledgeable about design but were given the authority to judge if I was the right material. My experience and skill didn't matter. They wanted someone younger than me.
Often I would see positions I interviewed for advertised 6 months later. I always suspected the hires didn't work out when the rubber hit the road and managers were left with an inexperienced person who proved to be more trouble than help.
Back in 2007, at Rose Medical Center in Denver, HR there hired a surgical scrub technician named Kristin Diane Parker, despite KNOWING that Parker had Hepatitis. Turned out that Parker was also a drug addict that stole post-op patient' pain meds, then injected them with saline from her contaminated needles. Parker got 30 years. Nobody in HR ever stood trial.
There is a public library nearby, that allows same-day reservations for their reading rooms. However, the staff only rarely posts notices of reading room reservations on the doors. What often happens is that one of the feminist librarians with an attitude enters the room with a smug grin on her face, and tells the men in the room (if there are only men in the room) that they have to clear out immediately. I complained to library management about this problem, but they just served me a line of crap to excuse that behavior.
That doesn't surprise me one bit. Public librarians in Canada and the US have devolved into full-blown Bolshevik commissars, particularly those just starting out. I have little use for that whole section of the profession.
Librarians are hilarious. Recently I tried donating some of my parent's excellent 70s era coffee table books and the librarian was pretty hostile about them not accepting vintage books. She could have just politely informed me they don't accept them but she had to assert her authority on the matter.
This was by design. Your defense dept. The people supposed to protect you have been hijacked to implement harm. It manifests in every conceivable way. Your compromised structure needs to be killed. It is not doing any good for anyone, ever. It participates in horror and lockdowns, and death and transhuman slavery on the global scale. This Dep. Of Defense is the model for permanent digital prison not the resistance. You have been destroyed by a 58 trillion dollar heist for long that you cannot recognize the prison around you and the constant tightening of the noise around your neck. You have been forced into coersion without any alternatives. You have been fed to believe in lies and celebrate your indoctrination as an enemy to yourself and others with degrees and titles.
Only because so many billionaire poster children of the failed state are obviously frauds and criminals do we have any chance to stop them.
Throw acid in the face of the people who support this.
It is 100 times worse than I know. And perhaps thousands of even millions. We havw been misled for generations to be ruled by dictatorships and to be mind-fucked into compliance. It manifests all around you. But because this open-prison that causes as much harm as possible has winners and losers who drive around and participate-you mistakenly call it a civIization.
I'm inclined to agree that the systematic dehumanization and demoralizing nature of the haves and the have nots in sharp contrast is anti-human, anti-family and their vociferousness is clearly anti-Christ.
And if these women have these men in front of them, what are they supposed to do? They're probably already married. If not, do the women have to make "the first move?" Isn't that antithetical to what these hard women should do? Why don't these men strike up a conversation? At least say hello?
Female friends of mine have told me it's the blue-collar types more likely to do just that, just say hello and give it a shot. They haven't gone through the misandrist indoctrination centres that their professionalized male counterparts have, and so there isn't that inherent capitulation to ridiculous social norms that leads to bad outcomes for both sexes. I can't tell you how many times these women say to me, "it's so nice for a guy to actually talk to me for a change!." As opposed to the para-conversations that take place through curated algorithms and doomscrolling that is supposedly substituting for actual human connection.
When you consider that the male: female ratios for app memberships favour women, most men I would imagine are at the "fuck it, might as well try it old school" stage.
What the West is going through now, I went through in Microcosm in the mid 1990's. Back when I believed the lie that Effinism was all about 'equality', I got engaged to a young woman who was an Ardent (there's another word I could use, starts with an 'R', ends with a 'D') Feminist. Over the two years of our relationship, I went from 'Papa Smurf' to 'The most abusive Man she'd ever known.'
How did that happen? Well, in large part, because I valued truth more than her feelings. That's not to say I didn't end up strangling myself, binding myself, boxing myself into as small a profile as possible, so as to avoid offending her. Yet at some point, issues came up I just could not let go, and in her mind, taking a stand and not moving was 'abuse'.
In the aftermath, I did a great deal of research into Feminism, as I sensed it was at the core of the problem. It was not all that shocking to me when I read the book she called her 'Bible' (That's "Secret Survivors" by E. Sue Blume), and discovered that this Author believed that Men are abusive by *Nature*, while Women could not be abusive under *any* circumstances.
Feminism was supremely well-designed to weaponize Women's darker impulses. It has been dominant in our culture so deeply & for so long that many, if not most, of its lies are accepted as culture 'givens'. One of the strongest evidences of the cost of this is that roughly 80% of all divorces today are instigated *by* the Woman.
If the West is going to survive, Feminism needs to be recognized as the Mind-Cancer that it is and dispensed with.
"...(there's another word I could use, starts with an 'R', ends with a 'D')...." Rabid maybe?
Took me years for it to dawn upon me that I've done pretty much the same thing; married her too, we're together, still.
I bought into the 'feminist' philosophy back in my twenties, believed supporting this 'new thing' was something positive. Worked at ignoring the '...Men are abusive by *Nature*, while Women could not be abusive under *any* circumstances' part of it. 50+ years on I can accept that I've made a mistake, would have been better off walking away.
Life lived 'alone' – with a housemate who values her commitment to her latest rescue dog conspicuously more than my honoring a commitment to provide what support I can – takes a toll.
(Good stuff again Elizabeth. Your clarity of thought and expression leaves me amazed.)
You have my complete sympathies. Even if she doesn't honor your dedication to that commitment, there are those of us out there who definitely do. (For what that's worth.) Though I still grieve that this Woman, who had serious issues, was only hurt more by Feminism, I am glad we never married.
I dodged *that* bullet, only to get hit by another though. I spent the next decade ('97-'07) alone, wondering if that would be it for me, when I stumbled across a young lady & we hit it off. After I vetted her to the point of paranoia, we started dating & eventually, married in late 2008.
Eventually however, starting in 2014, the Cultural Marxism savaging the West infected her, and I went from her, 'Modern Prophet Jerimiah', to a 'Selfish, Betraying, Sexist, Racist, Transphobe, Nazi.' (Despite her admitting I *hadn't* changed since we married.)
I still loved her, but the reverse was not true, so after over 15 years, she finally kicked me to the curb. Now this time, I think I'm *really* done.
To put it in the mythological/fantasy terms I'm fond of-
If you push yourself to where you never thought you could go & are willing to risk it all, you *can* reach the Dragon in its lair, slay it, and rescue your Princess.
However...
IF when you finally reach the Monster, only to find your Princess Languidly laying across the back of the Beast because she fell for the lies it whispered in her ear?
Only men can be abusive, said her book. Kinda like only whites can be racist. They create arrogant self righteous people with little or no empathy for those outside their tribe.
Another great essay. I always find your commentary worthwhile.
So, the women that ARE emotionally, mentally, monetarily, and physically abused are supposed to stay with the abusive men, because if they don't it's their own fault they filed for divorce?
Who said that? No one here. This response refutes nothing. Or are you seriously implying that most (if not all) of these Women are filing *because* they're being abused? That's some pretty specious logic.
In 1990 I was a young, "enlightened" man and married a woman who was an "empowered" single mother and a Type A professional. I supported her ambitions at the expense of my own, trying to pay down my male guilt I suppose. After our marriage fell apart about 15 years later, she admitted that she'd always wished she could've just been a stay-at-home mom... That information would've been helpful at the beginning....
Being raised with mostly boys and betrayed by female friends early in in life, I never feel into this trap. I played with, fought with and loved makes my whole life. I learned to compete with them not as female vs male but as an equal. I've never once in my life felt lesser as a woman or suffered any loss because I was a woman. Being a nurse for nearly forty years, never once did I feel being a female kept me down. Any condescension from male doctors was not viewed thru the lenses of patriarchy on my part.. they were just plain ol assholes. My best bosses have always been male.... They were straight up no emotional bullshit no mean girl stuff. No problems as long as you did your job
The women ..... Not so much. Back stabbing drama creating vengeful animals in lipstick and fake nails.
I love everything about men and cannot remember a single time I've ever been made to feel lesser for being female. There are differences between us but they are glorious to me and also to the men I have known.
Not saying all men are great or all women are toxic, not at all. Just saying I think you often see what you want to see and attract what you give when it comes to respect. Maybe it didn't start that way but the feminist movement definitely devolved into hatred or replacement at some point. Equal somehow became " I need to dominate you". So glad I missed that boat.
We are all assholes! What is our SYSTEM doing to us is the question. My grocery stores lease was cancelled not because it could not profit but to starve my community. My local business and hundreds of thousands of others.
Our digital dictatorship is destroying us as PEOPLE and families, and our GAY rights activists know this! You can use black scholars! What you cannot use is the public who has been destroyed by uniform propaganda that is anti-human on every channel including the majority of alternative media. Including A.I. driven mind-control. So few understand psychological conditioning that they fail to realize the enemy has captured their own minds and directs them to harm themselves and others. Americans have lost all autonomy. Armed dog catchers were sent to my door. A health check agent was sent with the police to destroy me. I cannot protect my own family or property in this living hell.
Our people are being killed to the tune of five million persons using our own doctors, nurses, and hospitals. Our immune systems and genetic make-up are being wrecked while social engineers manufacture foreign nationals in the tens of millions to destroy our communities all at the same time! What the fuck do you need to rise and conquer some terrorists implementing hell on Earth at the local level across the entire Continent?
My ex wife was a retail manager. Of the various departments she managed over time, she said the Cosmetics and Fragrance Department was the very worst! All women, and all vicious. 🤣
Wow. I did work in all female office.. (medical oncology and hematology).. and I find that comment interesting by your ex wife. I did have a couple good friends there but it was a different and difficult w/ some competition going on in the atmosphere which I did not really pay attention to because most of the women like me had University education and were paid at a higher scale and I could always MOVE ON to another job.
I have worked in retail when I was young.. a boutique, which we also worked on commission.. which is what I think contributed to the "negative attitude".. but I also knew I was College so it was not going to be my life (Tysons Corner, VA). so I could be friendly and make friends. there was something else going on there. OFFICE GAMES AND POLITICS in any job is really a bummer and I don't think it is about the genders of the people involved: I think it about the INDUSTRY and MONEY competition. I am RETIRED and as I look back.. that is what it appears to be to me. :)
In fairness, there were a lot of other women working there in different departments, but the C&F were the worst. Also, they worked on some type of commission, so there's that.
Yes, I very much agree. I also feel that with men I knew where I stood. They were direct and clear, whereas women were far more ambiguous and likely to stab you in the back.
Well said and totally agree. The male bosses I had were superior to the female bosses. I also have better and closer relationships with my two brothers than my three sisters.
Imagine such a thing happening 50 years ago? There would have been hell to pay. If western culture hadn’t defanged men since then, street justice would have, should have, taken care of that issue.
I really think it is a JOINT EFFORT and should be. Men do have a function besides lifting heavy things.. :) and being dad. and women do have a function besides being a procreator and mom. As a Christian I believe in the MALE AND FEMALE working as UNIT.. a WHOLE.. ENTITY and Marriage is a projection of the ENTITY of MALE AND FEMALE. does that make sense to you?.
That's what I always believed but it somehow was not played out in the real life in front of me. In my mind that was what 'traditionalist' meant and what I aspired to. It never seemed to work out that way for me tho.
As a woman, I have never thought women should be leaders or in charge. Most are too emotional or the opposite in spades, no in-between. There may be a woman behind every successful leader, but there to support not dominate. I’ll gladly let men lead.
The Islamic “rape” parties began in 626 Anno Domini in Medina, then Mecca and have expanded since then. After they rape them, then their scimitars remove their heads. Islam is exactly the same since the beginning.
Having grown up in the middle of two sisters, both narcissist and I the empath, I learned early on what they were capable of and they only got worse as yrs have gone on.
Thank you. It is Marxist. And there is a plot to rule over All people worldwide and to destroy civilization is the GOAL.
Canada actually signed up for global extermination!
Extermination is being done to Europe in record time. The war with Russia is an ensured defeat. It is of no benefit to Europe to wage war. It is an intentional suicide because the E.U. is bankrupt. Morally and physically bankrupt.
The Streamlined destruction of all rights and resources and PEOPLES worldwide is a collective goal of the United Nations extermination complex that mind-fucked Western People into destitution and slavery with their consent believing they were voting for progress.
Where the fuck is it! There is no sign of an informed public or culture or prosperous people anywhere. Our global rulers have turned the world into a porta potty that has been tipped over. This is a culture where shit streams everywhere cakes in chemicals and propaganda to mask the smell. And any form of access to autonomy or choice. The language of lies and deception by podcasts has misaligned people to do the worst possible outcomes for themselves and their families wealth and future. Participation in the structure is all it needs for you to be digitally caged in the Palantir Prison. The ease to destroy you with people of no morality or information is present. The maggot class which seized all of the power from the State have usurped also your minds to become the privatized armies to implement hell upon yourselves. Rightless mules with bankruptcy notes for I.O.U.s to Bank of International Settlements are self-fullfilming their own genocide. Maggot Class trillionaire with impunity who control Blackrock, Vanguard, Statestreet and Fidelity are working tirelessly to ensure that NO MAN OR WOMAN can ever touch their thrones of trillions in stolen wealth ever again. And big tech and invisible threats inside your body and mind made it possible. using drones, and satellites, and biological censors implanted inside you. You are already a slave. All of this was done without your consent. Anyone who challenges their own assassination of their family is attacked by secret police JUST AS WAS DONE TO ME by every branch of the mercantilist mayhem architecture. This is a privatized extermination campaign. A partnership that uses your cops, judges, and mind-washed people to end life as we know it.
Gosh. So much raw insight in one place. I should be used to it by now, having read more than a dozen of your essays, but I remain in awe.
I have nothing to add except to say, look to us older, conventionally successful men for affirmation. Testosterone levels decline, wisdom creeps in where it can.
I'm auditioning for shaman. Your vote would be appreciated.
See now, there's the problem with trying to be witty. My wife tells me, nobody ever gets it. The lady is right, most of the time. It was a gag. Failed again. Darn.
I’m 70 years old, and I’ve gained a lot of wisdom. Feminism means nothing to me, is it just another word for power, control? I’m married 49 years, my two sister in laws 60 years. My parents 56 years, but they’re together now in heaven. My 4 children collectively 72 years. You know what I believe held these enduring marriages together love. The true meaning of the word. When we spoke our vows we believed in those words. I always believed that having sex with my husband was really making love, we became one. Please don’t misunderstand I’m not saying all marriages are perfect, I’m just saying women today you want a soulmate figure out what it means to truly love. The true essence of the word. I feel sorry for the young in the dating scene, we’ve lost trust and question “What is this persons ulterior motive?” Sorry I’ll get off my soapbox now.
My daughter is 25 and a devoted mother of two dealing with the economics of the day which aren't good: can't afford housing on a six figure hubby salary. She is embracing being a mother and housewife - both kids are completely unvaxxed - and both kids are way ahead of the game. They make their own food. It is pretty cool to experience.
Their friend groups are kids that grew up at our houses 40 miles away from the Twin Shitties and they are just waiting for our policies(the BBB) to engage so they can experience 2019 again. And they will as G-d saved him on J13.
To everyone here who has daughters.... talk to them. Tell them what they are missing. Talk to them about the people they're working with, since that's where they might meet a mate. If the daughter leans conservative at all, she will NOT find a mate in a liberal workplace. Actually, that includes young men as well. Help her understand the consequences of her choices in a non-confrontational way.
My mom was a single mom and worked, I didn't know any other way. I wish I could have been a stay-at-home mom, to nurture my kids. I feel like I missed out. I think my kids got the short end of the stick. Thanks for your great articles.
Feminism was instituted and funded by Rockefeller...Gloria Steinam and Betty Friesen were raging communists and both were promiscuous lesbians.
Perhaps you would like to know some of the things I came to understand about the feminists during my 26 years as a cliical hypnotherapist and marriage counsellor. I had started my practice during the time when feminism was all the rage.
I should clarify that I had a hugely successful practice with no advertising or marketing. I was known for telling it like it was and after people spent years paying a psychologist or shrink to tell them what they wanted to hear or to load them up with pills, they would come to me as a 'last resort'.
Here's what I concluded based on the evidence that appeared before me:
1. most 'feminists' hated themselves, wanted to be something or someone else;
2. most were hiding their sociopathy behind their feminist charade;
3. most were supreme bitches, and had always been bitches and thus had few friends and attracted few if any partners. Instead of blaming their character flaws on themselves, they blamed it on the very people smart enough to run from them;
4. real women of the past knew their worth and used their influence judicially and strategically. Today loud-mouth feminists talk just to hear themselves talk, and or to try to make themselves relevant and important because they know most of us know they are neither relevant nor important;
5. real women had staying power and team-building skills. Feminists destroy, which is why they were ideal candidates for DEI jobs;
6. most of the 'feminists' I worked with were extremely abusive to their male partners and in most cases, if they came in as a couple, I would urge the male to leave the abusive situation;
7. feminists have absolutely no idea there is a vast difference between love and gratutious sex;
8. every feminist I dealt with had many degrees ... one had 6 masters degrees, but all were still useless. They all felt they were underemployed given their extensive academic accomplishments, yet not one could land a job at MacDonald's;
9. despite the many academic achievements these women had under their belt, they were useless at the basics, such as 'genuinely' loving their childen if they had some, being civilized with the partner who worked all day only to come home and take care of the children so she could be out having fun with her female friends. Forget asking them to get their hands dirty in the garden, cleaning up a flood in the house, cleaning up from wind damage, fixing a minor plumbing issue, etc.;
10. they are patently stupid about real life and meaningful relationships and are a punishment to be around.
I have never worked for a female before or after I was inpractice, except for the first one when I was 17 years old that was so jealous, rude and demanding that no one could stand her. I have always found men to be easier to understand, to get through to and to work with. They think in a linear fashion, one step-at-a-time, but women always bring ridiculous self-serving emotion into every discussion and every discussion was circular.
Most of the feminists I worked with were plain and simple not nice people on any level, and no man wanted to be with them for that reason. But once told they were 'feminists' they wore their insufferability like a badge of honour, then blamed everyone else for not respecting them or 'loving them'.
The courts drove men out of the lives of their families. I worked with countless men who were prevented from even seeing their kids -- the women were generally the ones engaged in parental alienation. The men could not even protect their kids from the women's boyfriends who often were pedophiles. The courts in Canada actively work to remove the father from the family, and often presume that the woman with the revolving door of boy-friends is logically the better care-giver, when the modern woman is far, far from that.
One of my last cases before retirement, I will never forget. The woman had been the Head of Nurses in a major Canadian hospital and retired 2 years by the time I saw her. She had been told that she would still be given work and invited to conferences and internal meetings to share her 'wisdom' during retirement.
However, once she walked out the door, not a single invite, not a single staff member wanted to spend any time with her and even when she invited herself to the hospital to visit, they all avoided her like a plague.
She was a feminist she bragged, never married and 100% devoted to her job. Now she was very, very angry at not getting the respect for her wisdom and years of dedication to her work that she felt she deserved. How dare they leave her out of everything.
As I tried to move the discussion to how she could move forward, now that the doors were closed, she would tell me how to conduct my session. She could see I would not commiserate with her and would never join in her attacks about her staff.
I called her on this effort to control how I approached the arrival to a resolution with her and she said, obviously feeling much indignity ' How dare you talk to me that way ... no one has ever challenged me like that and it is rude to do so. Do you know who I am?'
Well, that was the wrong question to ask me because after asking her if she really wanted me to answer her question, and she saying 'yes', I said that she was being shown by her former staff and employer that she had been a supreme bitch and they could not wait to see her gone. I said it was obvious that she had been extremely mean and that she expected them to keep putting up with her behavior and disrespect of others after she was out the door.
I said, "you burn't those bridges and they cannot be rebuilt', but you can change your approach to life going forward. Doing that bit of reflection and making the necessary changes, you would not have to be lonely, demanding or forcing others to put up with you."
She got so red in the face, I thought she was ready to blow a gasket. She then told me that she didn't like the way I was talking to her. I reminded her that she knew exactly how straight-forward I am and that I never mince-words because the person who referred her to me told her she had benefitted immensely from my honesty and no-nonsense approach.
She got up and said 'we weren't a good fit' and I said I wholeheartedly agreed, as I don't take abuse from anyone. I opened the door for her and closed it tightly behind her.
Wow. I’m supremely impressed with your strength and character. You are/were the utmost required voice your patients/clientele so desperately needed if they were ever going to improve their sad lot of life and choices.
There it is. The same menacing culprits and their model that they wield over the mind-fucked masses. Always promising to fix gender, wealth, some disparity under the name "social" or equality environmentalistic jingoism while advancing the destruction of lives and cultures around the world. W.E.F. seized the U.N. A privatized enslaved planet is their only ambition. They have never offered anything else but pain and suffering with only a handful of winners. Those are the monsters of financial dominance that you aspire to be. You work hard to appear in the minds of other morally destitute scoundrels that you are part of something. But like the vanquished demonic Snakes on a stick that run the collapse. You are just a more pathetic version of yourself. Beings of no meaning or ethics have plagues the Earth. People who support no one, not even their kids or elderly parents. The lowest forms of life in a social darwinism exchange of bad ideas and the worst possible outcomes. This is your political system. The lowest leaches on Earth serve its ranks to commit genocide and aspire to watch celebrities deceive them on every screen.
What you are is the vessel for transhumanist enslavement. And a lot of work was done to ensure that you would disbelieve your own hands as the executioner of everyone you told yourself you loved in your entire life.
"after many of the men she dated either seemed turned off by her ambition or weren't career-oriented enough for her" What incredible insight! Kind of nice how it clearly places the blame on them.
It reminds of the job applicant asked to list a weakness who professes that "sometimes I'm too much of a perfectionist." Sure you are, cupcake.
Having known and dated women like her, their charm wears off literally within minutes. You don't go on dates with women like these, you go on interviews. I had a better time chatting to the barmaids after I put women like these in cabs to take them home.
The nyt article author proudly mentions she “optimized” internet porn engagement among 18 year olds. And she wants men to respect her? Stay away from my son you ghoul.
I have been a professional librarian for a quarter of a century, and have worked at the two largest universities in Toronto, and the largest law firms on Bay Street. If there is one constant - one and one only - that has occurred throughout that time as a (straight) white male working in an overwhelmingly female, leftist profession (both in academia and to some extent corporate), it is this: whenever I'm hired, I'm always, *always* taken aside by numerous co-workers and told in hushed, forbidden tones: "Thank GOD we finally hired a MAN".
I've seen first-hand what's been sold to the professional, female class in cities like Toronto. It's not pretty. The dating scene for any woman over thirty is Darwinian, dreadful and turgid. And one end result not often discussed is the absolute elimination of men in the disciplines and professions that lead to the surplus of women that's described here: journalism, law, marketing, publishing, academia, business administration and development, design and many roles in the financial industry - along with many related fields - are now almost entirely female-dominated: from 80-90 percent female enrolment in undergrad uni courses up through grad school, to hiring choices by corporations in firms with 100 percent female HR departments, there is a baked-in, anti-male infrastructure in place that will only warp these numbers even further. I've literally never had a male boss in 25 years, and my profession is no longer an outlier.
I can guarantee that every woman in those articles mentioned has a kind, decent man and potential partner in their life that is in front of their face, but that they don't see: a plumber in their building who fixes their drains, the bus driver on their route to work, the electrician and drywaller on the condo construction site they pass by every day, the property manager of the office building they get their Starbucks from, and on an on. Problem is, good enough isn't good enough. And so onto the dating app treadmill they go, where that 10 percent of guys can create electronic harems that the ancient Sheikh's can only dream of. And left behind are thousands of self-deluded women with no partner and no children who wonder why no one at their grocery store speaks English.
LOVE your comment. Wish I could give it 10 hearts/likes.
As a female of the species, a wife, mother and grandmother I can't bear the way men are treated these days. Luckily my son is married to an incredible young woman who is rather old fashioned and a stay at home mom. My two sons-in-law are great guys and I love them dearly. All of these men are family oriented and they adore their wives and kids.
Here's the problem- while I am a total MAGA conservative, all of my family members that I speak of are liberal Dems. UGH!
I keep telling myself- judge them by their actions, not by their words.
Praying 🙏. Do you just decide to leave the room or join in the conversations revolving around the absurdity, hoping you’ll see the light come on?
"...with 100 percent female HR departments"
This. It's made work life intolerable for men but also women.
I had a former career as a graphic designer/art director and around 2000 when the HR departments came on strong they were filled with Millennial women younger than myself. These women were not knowledgeable about design but were given the authority to judge if I was the right material. My experience and skill didn't matter. They wanted someone younger than me.
Often I would see positions I interviewed for advertised 6 months later. I always suspected the hires didn't work out when the rubber hit the road and managers were left with an inexperienced person who proved to be more trouble than help.
"Human Resources" such a disgusting term.
Back in 2007, at Rose Medical Center in Denver, HR there hired a surgical scrub technician named Kristin Diane Parker, despite KNOWING that Parker had Hepatitis. Turned out that Parker was also a drug addict that stole post-op patient' pain meds, then injected them with saline from her contaminated needles. Parker got 30 years. Nobody in HR ever stood trial.
Shocking. 🙄 HR never has to pay for anything they do wrong.
Such!
Did you hear why Tyler Fischer is no longer seen on Gutfeld?
https://youtu.be/PWz8hIPojuU
(Be sure to read the comments...)
There is a public library nearby, that allows same-day reservations for their reading rooms. However, the staff only rarely posts notices of reading room reservations on the doors. What often happens is that one of the feminist librarians with an attitude enters the room with a smug grin on her face, and tells the men in the room (if there are only men in the room) that they have to clear out immediately. I complained to library management about this problem, but they just served me a line of crap to excuse that behavior.
That doesn't surprise me one bit. Public librarians in Canada and the US have devolved into full-blown Bolshevik commissars, particularly those just starting out. I have little use for that whole section of the profession.
Librarians are hilarious. Recently I tried donating some of my parent's excellent 70s era coffee table books and the librarian was pretty hostile about them not accepting vintage books. She could have just politely informed me they don't accept them but she had to assert her authority on the matter.
This was by design. Your defense dept. The people supposed to protect you have been hijacked to implement harm. It manifests in every conceivable way. Your compromised structure needs to be killed. It is not doing any good for anyone, ever. It participates in horror and lockdowns, and death and transhuman slavery on the global scale. This Dep. Of Defense is the model for permanent digital prison not the resistance. You have been destroyed by a 58 trillion dollar heist for long that you cannot recognize the prison around you and the constant tightening of the noise around your neck. You have been forced into coersion without any alternatives. You have been fed to believe in lies and celebrate your indoctrination as an enemy to yourself and others with degrees and titles.
Only because so many billionaire poster children of the failed state are obviously frauds and criminals do we have any chance to stop them.
Throw acid in the face of the people who support this.
It is 100 times worse than I know. And perhaps thousands of even millions. We havw been misled for generations to be ruled by dictatorships and to be mind-fucked into compliance. It manifests all around you. But because this open-prison that causes as much harm as possible has winners and losers who drive around and participate-you mistakenly call it a civIization.
It is not. The whole fucking this is anti-human
I'm inclined to agree that the systematic dehumanization and demoralizing nature of the haves and the have nots in sharp contrast is anti-human, anti-family and their vociferousness is clearly anti-Christ.
And if these women have these men in front of them, what are they supposed to do? They're probably already married. If not, do the women have to make "the first move?" Isn't that antithetical to what these hard women should do? Why don't these men strike up a conversation? At least say hello?
Female friends of mine have told me it's the blue-collar types more likely to do just that, just say hello and give it a shot. They haven't gone through the misandrist indoctrination centres that their professionalized male counterparts have, and so there isn't that inherent capitulation to ridiculous social norms that leads to bad outcomes for both sexes. I can't tell you how many times these women say to me, "it's so nice for a guy to actually talk to me for a change!." As opposed to the para-conversations that take place through curated algorithms and doomscrolling that is supposedly substituting for actual human connection.
When you consider that the male: female ratios for app memberships favour women, most men I would imagine are at the "fuck it, might as well try it old school" stage.
Yes, and being more down to Earth, are more the type of man to have around.
What the West is going through now, I went through in Microcosm in the mid 1990's. Back when I believed the lie that Effinism was all about 'equality', I got engaged to a young woman who was an Ardent (there's another word I could use, starts with an 'R', ends with a 'D') Feminist. Over the two years of our relationship, I went from 'Papa Smurf' to 'The most abusive Man she'd ever known.'
How did that happen? Well, in large part, because I valued truth more than her feelings. That's not to say I didn't end up strangling myself, binding myself, boxing myself into as small a profile as possible, so as to avoid offending her. Yet at some point, issues came up I just could not let go, and in her mind, taking a stand and not moving was 'abuse'.
In the aftermath, I did a great deal of research into Feminism, as I sensed it was at the core of the problem. It was not all that shocking to me when I read the book she called her 'Bible' (That's "Secret Survivors" by E. Sue Blume), and discovered that this Author believed that Men are abusive by *Nature*, while Women could not be abusive under *any* circumstances.
Feminism was supremely well-designed to weaponize Women's darker impulses. It has been dominant in our culture so deeply & for so long that many, if not most, of its lies are accepted as culture 'givens'. One of the strongest evidences of the cost of this is that roughly 80% of all divorces today are instigated *by* the Woman.
If the West is going to survive, Feminism needs to be recognized as the Mind-Cancer that it is and dispensed with.
"...(there's another word I could use, starts with an 'R', ends with a 'D')...." Rabid maybe?
Took me years for it to dawn upon me that I've done pretty much the same thing; married her too, we're together, still.
I bought into the 'feminist' philosophy back in my twenties, believed supporting this 'new thing' was something positive. Worked at ignoring the '...Men are abusive by *Nature*, while Women could not be abusive under *any* circumstances' part of it. 50+ years on I can accept that I've made a mistake, would have been better off walking away.
Life lived 'alone' – with a housemate who values her commitment to her latest rescue dog conspicuously more than my honoring a commitment to provide what support I can – takes a toll.
(Good stuff again Elizabeth. Your clarity of thought and expression leaves me amazed.)
You have my complete sympathies. Even if she doesn't honor your dedication to that commitment, there are those of us out there who definitely do. (For what that's worth.) Though I still grieve that this Woman, who had serious issues, was only hurt more by Feminism, I am glad we never married.
I dodged *that* bullet, only to get hit by another though. I spent the next decade ('97-'07) alone, wondering if that would be it for me, when I stumbled across a young lady & we hit it off. After I vetted her to the point of paranoia, we started dating & eventually, married in late 2008.
Eventually however, starting in 2014, the Cultural Marxism savaging the West infected her, and I went from her, 'Modern Prophet Jerimiah', to a 'Selfish, Betraying, Sexist, Racist, Transphobe, Nazi.' (Despite her admitting I *hadn't* changed since we married.)
I still loved her, but the reverse was not true, so after over 15 years, she finally kicked me to the curb. Now this time, I think I'm *really* done.
To put it in the mythological/fantasy terms I'm fond of-
If you push yourself to where you never thought you could go & are willing to risk it all, you *can* reach the Dragon in its lair, slay it, and rescue your Princess.
However...
IF when you finally reach the Monster, only to find your Princess Languidly laying across the back of the Beast because she fell for the lies it whispered in her ear?
THAT is a fight no Mortal Man can win.
Dolores Riordan, RIP beautiful lady.
"You can go your own way".
https://youtu.be/Qlw4NohB678
Only men can be abusive, said her book. Kinda like only whites can be racist. They create arrogant self righteous people with little or no empathy for those outside their tribe.
Another great essay. I always find your commentary worthwhile.
E. Sue Blume's statement is on par with the proclamation from various race hustlers that "persons of colour cannot be racist".
Right on, my friend.
"...so as to avoid offending her."
Which, of course, was not permissible.
So, the women that ARE emotionally, mentally, monetarily, and physically abused are supposed to stay with the abusive men, because if they don't it's their own fault they filed for divorce?
Who said that? No one here. This response refutes nothing. Or are you seriously implying that most (if not all) of these Women are filing *because* they're being abused? That's some pretty specious logic.
Right! You read the comments and fully understood them.
Well, no matter what they'll be blamed.
There are a lot of abusive men. And an equal number of abusive women.
In my experience, there are far more abusive women. They just have a more subtle but every bit as harmful/hurtful (maybe even more so) kind of abuse.
Women marrying someone because they have a good career is abusive. Leaving them because they go bankrupt is abusive.
In 1990 I was a young, "enlightened" man and married a woman who was an "empowered" single mother and a Type A professional. I supported her ambitions at the expense of my own, trying to pay down my male guilt I suppose. After our marriage fell apart about 15 years later, she admitted that she'd always wished she could've just been a stay-at-home mom... That information would've been helpful at the beginning....
Ahh, she paid a high price to maintain a facade, just to appear hip.
That's so awful of her as a human being to have done that! Girls get so pumped full of that $#!t these days . . . . what became of the child?
Wow
Being raised with mostly boys and betrayed by female friends early in in life, I never feel into this trap. I played with, fought with and loved makes my whole life. I learned to compete with them not as female vs male but as an equal. I've never once in my life felt lesser as a woman or suffered any loss because I was a woman. Being a nurse for nearly forty years, never once did I feel being a female kept me down. Any condescension from male doctors was not viewed thru the lenses of patriarchy on my part.. they were just plain ol assholes. My best bosses have always been male.... They were straight up no emotional bullshit no mean girl stuff. No problems as long as you did your job
The women ..... Not so much. Back stabbing drama creating vengeful animals in lipstick and fake nails.
I love everything about men and cannot remember a single time I've ever been made to feel lesser for being female. There are differences between us but they are glorious to me and also to the men I have known.
Not saying all men are great or all women are toxic, not at all. Just saying I think you often see what you want to see and attract what you give when it comes to respect. Maybe it didn't start that way but the feminist movement definitely devolved into hatred or replacement at some point. Equal somehow became " I need to dominate you". So glad I missed that boat.
THIS!!! 👆👆 well said! 👏👏👏 I have never felt lesser or a victim by a man...I always chalked it up to the man being an asshole. Nothing .ore.
We are all assholes! What is our SYSTEM doing to us is the question. My grocery stores lease was cancelled not because it could not profit but to starve my community. My local business and hundreds of thousands of others.
Our digital dictatorship is destroying us as PEOPLE and families, and our GAY rights activists know this! You can use black scholars! What you cannot use is the public who has been destroyed by uniform propaganda that is anti-human on every channel including the majority of alternative media. Including A.I. driven mind-control. So few understand psychological conditioning that they fail to realize the enemy has captured their own minds and directs them to harm themselves and others. Americans have lost all autonomy. Armed dog catchers were sent to my door. A health check agent was sent with the police to destroy me. I cannot protect my own family or property in this living hell.
Our people are being killed to the tune of five million persons using our own doctors, nurses, and hospitals. Our immune systems and genetic make-up are being wrecked while social engineers manufacture foreign nationals in the tens of millions to destroy our communities all at the same time! What the fuck do you need to rise and conquer some terrorists implementing hell on Earth at the local level across the entire Continent?
My ex wife was a retail manager. Of the various departments she managed over time, she said the Cosmetics and Fragrance Department was the very worst! All women, and all vicious. 🤣
Wow. I did work in all female office.. (medical oncology and hematology).. and I find that comment interesting by your ex wife. I did have a couple good friends there but it was a different and difficult w/ some competition going on in the atmosphere which I did not really pay attention to because most of the women like me had University education and were paid at a higher scale and I could always MOVE ON to another job.
I have worked in retail when I was young.. a boutique, which we also worked on commission.. which is what I think contributed to the "negative attitude".. but I also knew I was College so it was not going to be my life (Tysons Corner, VA). so I could be friendly and make friends. there was something else going on there. OFFICE GAMES AND POLITICS in any job is really a bummer and I don't think it is about the genders of the people involved: I think it about the INDUSTRY and MONEY competition. I am RETIRED and as I look back.. that is what it appears to be to me. :)
In fairness, there were a lot of other women working there in different departments, but the C&F were the worst. Also, they worked on some type of commission, so there's that.
Worked in retail for a decade during uni, can confirm.
Gosh I hate auto correct. I need to remember to check before I hit send.
Sue, if you click on the three little dots to the far right of your name, you can edit your post.
Yes, I very much agree. I also feel that with men I knew where I stood. They were direct and clear, whereas women were far more ambiguous and likely to stab you in the back.
I have a friend who works in Big Pharma; she works with all women and is miserable.
I used to work in live entertainment production. 99% men. So much easier to deal with just men rather than women.
Women like you make the sun shine. I know, I have been living with one for 45 years.
Well said and totally agree. The male bosses I had were superior to the female bosses. I also have better and closer relationships with my two brothers than my three sisters.
Until feminism, socialism and Marxism are removed from universities, the long March to the destruction of Western civilisation will continue.
Just an FYI
A good portion of women raped in German cities that night were gang raped by Muslim migrants.
It was the rape game they play.
It took our media almost four weeks before they started reporting on it.
Last time I checked only two of tge scumbags were prosecuted.
Imagine such a thing happening 50 years ago? There would have been hell to pay. If western culture hadn’t defanged men since then, street justice would have, should have, taken care of that issue.
That's why Europeans have been disarmed.
Chivalry would have kicked.
Just like in Russia the October Revolution was started by women, Prohibition was lead by women.
We think men are in charge in reality it's women.
Behind every successful leader is a woman.
I really think it is a JOINT EFFORT and should be. Men do have a function besides lifting heavy things.. :) and being dad. and women do have a function besides being a procreator and mom. As a Christian I believe in the MALE AND FEMALE working as UNIT.. a WHOLE.. ENTITY and Marriage is a projection of the ENTITY of MALE AND FEMALE. does that make sense to you?.
That's what I always believed but it somehow was not played out in the real life in front of me. In my mind that was what 'traditionalist' meant and what I aspired to. It never seemed to work out that way for me tho.
No
Really.....like gin and tonic, rum and coke,
Dynamite and matches, Nitroglycerin and gravity, or holding lightening rods during thunderstorms.
As a woman, I have never thought women should be leaders or in charge. Most are too emotional or the opposite in spades, no in-between. There may be a woman behind every successful leader, but there to support not dominate. I’ll gladly let men lead.
Yep! (Unless of course the perps were disguised behind a collar. Not white or blue ones either.)
I wouldn't say this, of course, but I know someone who would say, kill them all.
The Islamic “rape” parties began in 626 Anno Domini in Medina, then Mecca and have expanded since then. After they rape them, then their scimitars remove their heads. Islam is exactly the same since the beginning.
I am well aware of that being half German and born there and I have family still there.
it was shocking. Germany is going to have a serious decision.. very very soon..
"Men are abusive by *Nature*, while Women could not be abusive under *any* circumstances' part of it."
Unless the men in question are from that particular ethnic and/or religious background. Then it's the other way around.
See the UK's grooming gangs scandal....
Having grown up in the middle of two sisters, both narcissist and I the empath, I learned early on what they were capable of and they only got worse as yrs have gone on.
Thank you. It is Marxist. And there is a plot to rule over All people worldwide and to destroy civilization is the GOAL.
Canada actually signed up for global extermination!
Extermination is being done to Europe in record time. The war with Russia is an ensured defeat. It is of no benefit to Europe to wage war. It is an intentional suicide because the E.U. is bankrupt. Morally and physically bankrupt.
The Streamlined destruction of all rights and resources and PEOPLES worldwide is a collective goal of the United Nations extermination complex that mind-fucked Western People into destitution and slavery with their consent believing they were voting for progress.
Where the fuck is it! There is no sign of an informed public or culture or prosperous people anywhere. Our global rulers have turned the world into a porta potty that has been tipped over. This is a culture where shit streams everywhere cakes in chemicals and propaganda to mask the smell. And any form of access to autonomy or choice. The language of lies and deception by podcasts has misaligned people to do the worst possible outcomes for themselves and their families wealth and future. Participation in the structure is all it needs for you to be digitally caged in the Palantir Prison. The ease to destroy you with people of no morality or information is present. The maggot class which seized all of the power from the State have usurped also your minds to become the privatized armies to implement hell upon yourselves. Rightless mules with bankruptcy notes for I.O.U.s to Bank of International Settlements are self-fullfilming their own genocide. Maggot Class trillionaire with impunity who control Blackrock, Vanguard, Statestreet and Fidelity are working tirelessly to ensure that NO MAN OR WOMAN can ever touch their thrones of trillions in stolen wealth ever again. And big tech and invisible threats inside your body and mind made it possible. using drones, and satellites, and biological censors implanted inside you. You are already a slave. All of this was done without your consent. Anyone who challenges their own assassination of their family is attacked by secret police JUST AS WAS DONE TO ME by every branch of the mercantilist mayhem architecture. This is a privatized extermination campaign. A partnership that uses your cops, judges, and mind-washed people to end life as we know it.
Gosh. So much raw insight in one place. I should be used to it by now, having read more than a dozen of your essays, but I remain in awe.
I have nothing to add except to say, look to us older, conventionally successful men for affirmation. Testosterone levels decline, wisdom creeps in where it can.
I'm auditioning for shaman. Your vote would be appreciated.
Link please... 😉
See now, there's the problem with trying to be witty. My wife tells me, nobody ever gets it. The lady is right, most of the time. It was a gag. Failed again. Darn.
You didn't fail.
I was poking you in ribs but it got lost in Substack. Did u not notice the winky? 😉
I did notice the winky, but I wasn't sure if I was off the hook. What a relief. Thanks for the vote of confidence.
I’m 70 years old, and I’ve gained a lot of wisdom. Feminism means nothing to me, is it just another word for power, control? I’m married 49 years, my two sister in laws 60 years. My parents 56 years, but they’re together now in heaven. My 4 children collectively 72 years. You know what I believe held these enduring marriages together love. The true meaning of the word. When we spoke our vows we believed in those words. I always believed that having sex with my husband was really making love, we became one. Please don’t misunderstand I’m not saying all marriages are perfect, I’m just saying women today you want a soulmate figure out what it means to truly love. The true essence of the word. I feel sorry for the young in the dating scene, we’ve lost trust and question “What is this persons ulterior motive?” Sorry I’ll get off my soapbox now.
My daughter is 25 and a devoted mother of two dealing with the economics of the day which aren't good: can't afford housing on a six figure hubby salary. She is embracing being a mother and housewife - both kids are completely unvaxxed - and both kids are way ahead of the game. They make their own food. It is pretty cool to experience.
Their friend groups are kids that grew up at our houses 40 miles away from the Twin Shitties and they are just waiting for our policies(the BBB) to engage so they can experience 2019 again. And they will as G-d saved him on J13.
Keep up the good work. We were duped for sure.
To everyone here who has daughters.... talk to them. Tell them what they are missing. Talk to them about the people they're working with, since that's where they might meet a mate. If the daughter leans conservative at all, she will NOT find a mate in a liberal workplace. Actually, that includes young men as well. Help her understand the consequences of her choices in a non-confrontational way.
My mom was a single mom and worked, I didn't know any other way. I wish I could have been a stay-at-home mom, to nurture my kids. I feel like I missed out. I think my kids got the short end of the stick. Thanks for your great articles.
Feminism was instituted and funded by Rockefeller...Gloria Steinam and Betty Friesen were raging communists and both were promiscuous lesbians.
Perhaps you would like to know some of the things I came to understand about the feminists during my 26 years as a cliical hypnotherapist and marriage counsellor. I had started my practice during the time when feminism was all the rage.
I should clarify that I had a hugely successful practice with no advertising or marketing. I was known for telling it like it was and after people spent years paying a psychologist or shrink to tell them what they wanted to hear or to load them up with pills, they would come to me as a 'last resort'.
Here's what I concluded based on the evidence that appeared before me:
1. most 'feminists' hated themselves, wanted to be something or someone else;
2. most were hiding their sociopathy behind their feminist charade;
3. most were supreme bitches, and had always been bitches and thus had few friends and attracted few if any partners. Instead of blaming their character flaws on themselves, they blamed it on the very people smart enough to run from them;
4. real women of the past knew their worth and used their influence judicially and strategically. Today loud-mouth feminists talk just to hear themselves talk, and or to try to make themselves relevant and important because they know most of us know they are neither relevant nor important;
5. real women had staying power and team-building skills. Feminists destroy, which is why they were ideal candidates for DEI jobs;
6. most of the 'feminists' I worked with were extremely abusive to their male partners and in most cases, if they came in as a couple, I would urge the male to leave the abusive situation;
7. feminists have absolutely no idea there is a vast difference between love and gratutious sex;
8. every feminist I dealt with had many degrees ... one had 6 masters degrees, but all were still useless. They all felt they were underemployed given their extensive academic accomplishments, yet not one could land a job at MacDonald's;
9. despite the many academic achievements these women had under their belt, they were useless at the basics, such as 'genuinely' loving their childen if they had some, being civilized with the partner who worked all day only to come home and take care of the children so she could be out having fun with her female friends. Forget asking them to get their hands dirty in the garden, cleaning up a flood in the house, cleaning up from wind damage, fixing a minor plumbing issue, etc.;
10. they are patently stupid about real life and meaningful relationships and are a punishment to be around.
I have never worked for a female before or after I was inpractice, except for the first one when I was 17 years old that was so jealous, rude and demanding that no one could stand her. I have always found men to be easier to understand, to get through to and to work with. They think in a linear fashion, one step-at-a-time, but women always bring ridiculous self-serving emotion into every discussion and every discussion was circular.
Most of the feminists I worked with were plain and simple not nice people on any level, and no man wanted to be with them for that reason. But once told they were 'feminists' they wore their insufferability like a badge of honour, then blamed everyone else for not respecting them or 'loving them'.
The courts drove men out of the lives of their families. I worked with countless men who were prevented from even seeing their kids -- the women were generally the ones engaged in parental alienation. The men could not even protect their kids from the women's boyfriends who often were pedophiles. The courts in Canada actively work to remove the father from the family, and often presume that the woman with the revolving door of boy-friends is logically the better care-giver, when the modern woman is far, far from that.
One of my last cases before retirement, I will never forget. The woman had been the Head of Nurses in a major Canadian hospital and retired 2 years by the time I saw her. She had been told that she would still be given work and invited to conferences and internal meetings to share her 'wisdom' during retirement.
However, once she walked out the door, not a single invite, not a single staff member wanted to spend any time with her and even when she invited herself to the hospital to visit, they all avoided her like a plague.
She was a feminist she bragged, never married and 100% devoted to her job. Now she was very, very angry at not getting the respect for her wisdom and years of dedication to her work that she felt she deserved. How dare they leave her out of everything.
As I tried to move the discussion to how she could move forward, now that the doors were closed, she would tell me how to conduct my session. She could see I would not commiserate with her and would never join in her attacks about her staff.
I called her on this effort to control how I approached the arrival to a resolution with her and she said, obviously feeling much indignity ' How dare you talk to me that way ... no one has ever challenged me like that and it is rude to do so. Do you know who I am?'
Well, that was the wrong question to ask me because after asking her if she really wanted me to answer her question, and she saying 'yes', I said that she was being shown by her former staff and employer that she had been a supreme bitch and they could not wait to see her gone. I said it was obvious that she had been extremely mean and that she expected them to keep putting up with her behavior and disrespect of others after she was out the door.
I said, "you burn't those bridges and they cannot be rebuilt', but you can change your approach to life going forward. Doing that bit of reflection and making the necessary changes, you would not have to be lonely, demanding or forcing others to put up with you."
She got so red in the face, I thought she was ready to blow a gasket. She then told me that she didn't like the way I was talking to her. I reminded her that she knew exactly how straight-forward I am and that I never mince-words because the person who referred her to me told her she had benefitted immensely from my honesty and no-nonsense approach.
She got up and said 'we weren't a good fit' and I said I wholeheartedly agreed, as I don't take abuse from anyone. I opened the door for her and closed it tightly behind her.
Wow. I’m supremely impressed with your strength and character. You are/were the utmost required voice your patients/clientele so desperately needed if they were ever going to improve their sad lot of life and choices.
There it is. The same menacing culprits and their model that they wield over the mind-fucked masses. Always promising to fix gender, wealth, some disparity under the name "social" or equality environmentalistic jingoism while advancing the destruction of lives and cultures around the world. W.E.F. seized the U.N. A privatized enslaved planet is their only ambition. They have never offered anything else but pain and suffering with only a handful of winners. Those are the monsters of financial dominance that you aspire to be. You work hard to appear in the minds of other morally destitute scoundrels that you are part of something. But like the vanquished demonic Snakes on a stick that run the collapse. You are just a more pathetic version of yourself. Beings of no meaning or ethics have plagues the Earth. People who support no one, not even their kids or elderly parents. The lowest forms of life in a social darwinism exchange of bad ideas and the worst possible outcomes. This is your political system. The lowest leaches on Earth serve its ranks to commit genocide and aspire to watch celebrities deceive them on every screen.
What you are is the vessel for transhumanist enslavement. And a lot of work was done to ensure that you would disbelieve your own hands as the executioner of everyone you told yourself you loved in your entire life.
Is it okay for a man to like this post?
Sure, Elizabeth speaks with common sense, with a side of hilarity and sarcasm.
Try, delicious rage 🔥🔥
I got it!! Lol
Helps if you read it first.
I see jokes are not in your wheelhouse…
If you read the article, then you know your comment is both asinine and grovelling
"after many of the men she dated either seemed turned off by her ambition or weren't career-oriented enough for her" What incredible insight! Kind of nice how it clearly places the blame on them.
It reminds of the job applicant asked to list a weakness who professes that "sometimes I'm too much of a perfectionist." Sure you are, cupcake.
Having known and dated women like her, their charm wears off literally within minutes. You don't go on dates with women like these, you go on interviews. I had a better time chatting to the barmaids after I put women like these in cabs to take them home.
For myself, I was immediately turned off by her crazy eyes and wraith-like grimace....
“Wraith-like.” I love it!
Yep, those crazy eyes. Karen eyes. Hillary eyes. Ghislaine eyes.
OK gotta go. :) have a great day all. this has been interesting I too am over 65 so.. been there done that took the BAKING CLASS TOO.. .. LOLOLOLOL
The nyt article author proudly mentions she “optimized” internet porn engagement among 18 year olds. And she wants men to respect her? Stay away from my son you ghoul.
Thank you Elizabeth. Made me laugh at Bill Clinton’s face melting off his bones. 😁 great essay and I appreciate you.
I have this poster on my wall, in which I read as a prayer with an Amen ending:
Keep my anger from becoming meanness.
Keep my sorrow from collapsing into self-pity.
Keep my heart strong enough to keep breaking.
Keep my anger turned towards justice, not cruelty.
Remind me that this, all of this, every bit of it, is for love.
Keep me fiercely kind.